DEAR DEIDRE: EVEN though he is a dream in every way, my boyfriend prefers online pornography to having sex with me.
We work different shifts so I don’t mind him looking at porn but we only ever have sex when I initiate it.
I have a much higher sex drive than him. Sometimes he makes excuses and my worry is that he’s choosing porn over me.
I’m 33 and he is 32. We’ve been together for three years and it has got worse.
What will he be like in five years’ time?
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DEIDRE SAYS: I’m afraid your boyfriend’s regular use of pornography is widening this gap between your sex drives.
Online porn leads users to more and more extreme material, which blunts the appetite for real sex with a real partner.
Tell him if he does not want to lose you he must wean himself off porn.
My e-leaflet Internet Pornography Worries explains tactics and sources of help.
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