Mother-of-two reveals she is REFUSING to buy Christmas presents for her family because it is ‘too stressful’ amid cost-of-living crisis – while her children will receive ‘second hand’ gifts
- Heidi Ondrak, 51, from Plymouth, used to splash out over £1,000 at Christmas
- However amid the cost-of-living crisis, she has decided to ditch shopping
- Branded the celebration ‘a big marketing construct’ and ‘too stressful’
- Instead will be gifting her children second-hand items from car boot sales
A British mother has revealed how she will save thousands of pounds this Christmas – by refusing to buy people presents.
Heidi Ondrak, 51, from Plymouth, used to splash out over £1,000 during the festive period but this year, as the cost of living crisis rages on, has decided to ditch the shopping altogether.
Branding Christmas as a ‘big marketing construct’, the mother said she will ‘never again’ spend her hard-earned cash on gifts for family members, which in the past has seen her splash out £50 per person.
The only exception is her two children, Daisy, 13 and Archie, 15, who will receive a few packages but nothing new; all the gifts will be bought at charity shops or car boot sales.
Heidi Ondrak, 51, from Plymouth, has revealed how she will save thousands of pounds this Christmas – by refusing to buy people presents
Calling the gifting tradition ‘insane’, the mother-of-two said she would be giving her children second-hand items from charity shops and car boot sales
Among the items Heidi plans to give away this Christmas is a number of freebies, like this soap, which she got online as a sample
‘The gifting tradition is insane, I don’t need anything, neither do most adults,’ Heidi told said.
‘What’s the point of the stress and racking up credit cards and debt just for one day of the year?
‘I am not religious and Santa isn’t real, it’s all a big marketing construct to make us feel compelled to spend money.
‘It’s not worth bankrupting yourself for one day.
The mother-of-two argues that it is ‘not worth bankrupting’ yourself for ‘one day’ – and instead shops in charity shops for second-hand pieces (left, a jacket which she bought for £7, and right, a bathroom set from a charity shop)
Heidi believes that many items for the holiday can be found at car boot sales (pictured, part of a box full of 30 cards Heidi Ondrak picked up at a boot sale)
‘Christmas is not about consumption and greed, marketing just has us believe that and our kids are targeted.
Heidi’s Christmas cost-saving tips
– Buy items second-hand from charity shops and car boot sales
– Recycle toys and games from Gum Tree or Facebook
– To slash costs on Christmas dinner, pool together with another family
– Buy chicken instead of turkey
– Top up plates with extra roast potatoes
– Don’t go mad with desserts
– Create a meal plan for the year and stick to it
– Repurpose wrapping paper
‘I refuse to spend my money playing into this any longer.’
The mother-of-two has also slashed her kids’ budget for the festive event.
In the past, she used to spent £1,000 on her children alone, but this year, has given them both a budget of £200 – with all gifts being second-hand.
She said: ‘If I had very small kids I would get toys at the car boot and sterilise, kids grow out of stuff really quick so it’s usually in mint condition.
‘My kids want clothes and electronics, I’ll buy refurbished tablets and phones online and clothes.
‘I will let them have a budget, if and when I find things at the charity shop that is boxed or new with tags I will pop that away for Christmas.
‘I usually get bags and tops for my daughter, while my son wants protein and gym-related things and very often I have found unopened protein powder in date at the boot sale too, so I will keep an eye out.
‘Just explain how budgets work to your children as they get older.
‘As for younger kids, just buy fancy boxes and recycle toys and games from charity shops, Gumtree, Facebook Marketplace and markets.’
As well as saving money on her own Christmas shopping, Heidi has some tips to help other families slash their festive bills.
In the past, she used to spent £1,000 on her children alone, but this year, has given them both a budget of £200 – with all gifts being second-hand
Branding Christmas as a ‘big marketing construct’, the mother said she will ‘never again’ spend her hard-earned cash on gifts for family members, which in the past has seen her splash out £50 per person
The mother-of-two is now determined to find savvy ways to cut costs around her home, including at meal times (pictured, using a ready made mash)
Meanwhile Heidi is also keen to cut costs in her supermarket shop, and batch cooks meals to feed her family (left, cooking burgers, and right, a slow cooker)
From swapping the holiday meat to scrapping your oven, here is some savvy advice from the super saver.
She said: ‘Pool together with another family; previous years, me and my friend pooled our resources and our families ate together.
‘Buy cheaper meat, turkey is so overrated, get a chicken, it can be cooked in the air fryer, the veg is cheap.
‘There is no need to go mad, top plates up with extra roasters, don’t go mad with tons of desserts, make a meal plan and stick to it and always shop with a list.
The mother-of-two, who is also a fan of the reduced yellow sticker section in the supermarket, advised others to make a meal plan and stick to it
‘I ate out the last few years at about £75 a head but will cook at home this year and as no one really likes turkey I will buy a chicken.
‘Wrapping paper can be repurposed if it’s been saved from last year.
‘What I do throughout the year is buy neutral wrapping paper for birthdays and use the same roll at Christmas.
‘My decorations will be reused from previous years and the tree lights won’t go on unless they are battery-operated.’
Heidi, who uses an air fryer to cook her Christmas dinner vegetables (left), also advocated bulking meals up with cheaper vegetables (right)
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