DEAR DEIDRE: MY girlfriend thinks I don’t fancy her because I can no longer get an erection.
We were together for five years, then we split up for 18 months. She’s 48 and I’m 50.
We started chatting again on Facebook and met up to try again with our relationship.
When we had sex again for the first time, it was a disaster.
I’ve never had erection issues before. I was nervous because it had been so long but I never thought sex would be a problem.
Now I’m avoiding having to take her to bed.
DEIDRE SAYS: Have a check-up with your doctor. If you’re not overweight, drinking too much or smoking, then you probably have performance anxiety.
You were over-thinking the sexual side of things when you got back together.
Now, after one failure in bed, your anxiety is getting to you.
My e-leaflet Solving Erection Problems explains how to sort this out.
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