DEAR DEIDRE: PLANNING our summer holiday has turned into a row over me wanting some time for myself.
My husband and I are 35. We have been married for 12 years and our boys are ten and nine.
The plan was we’d all go to a holiday cottage for a week then my husband would take the boys camping for a week while I went back to work.
I was excited at the thought of no cooking or cleaning for a week – but then I found out I am due another week off work.
My husband now wants me to join them camping and doesn’t understand why I don’t want to go.
It’s not like I am thinking of cheating while they are away but I couldn’t seem to get it over to him that I want a break.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Insist you need a few days of “me time”.
As a compromise, could you offer to go for the last weekend and help pack up camp?
You might be glad you did.
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