DEAR DEIDRE: MY partner has been playing away.
He’s contacted other women on a dating site, swapping some rude pictures and some of the messages read like they have had sex.
My partner denied this when I confronted him, but looking back over the messages it looks like he’s been messing around for over two years.
He has apologised and promised he won’t message any of these women again. He’s already deleted the app.
But the thing that has got me furious is he’s blamed me for his wandering eye.
Two years ago, I was going through the menopause and there wasn’t much physical contact between us.
I am 52 and my partner is 53. We have been together for eight years and generally have a good relationship which is why I was shocked when I discovered what he had been doing.
He assures me he wants to rebuild our relationship, but I am not so sure.
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You can’t save your relationship unless he is genuinely sorry.
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