DEAR DEIDRE: AS soon as my fiance came to live with me, our sex life fell off a cliff.
I’m 35, he’s 33 and moved in six months ago.
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He says now that he is settled, he has put on a bit of weight and that’s why he doesn’t want sex so much.
But I see him clocking other girls on social media. When I confront him, he just denies it.
He seems to have gone off me and even kisses me differently.
I said I’m not bothered about his weight, I just want to feel wanted.
But he seems to think sex is all about his needs.
DEIDRE SAYS: He takes you for granted – maybe echoing his parents’ relationship – now that you live together.
It is time for some straight-talking. If you would like a cuddle in the mornings, say so. If you’d like sex twice a week, spell that out.
My e-leaflet on Reviving Sex Drive can help him.
Tell him you love him just the way he is and, because of that, want to get into regular exercise together.
But keeping off excess weight and boosting the circulation is good for libido as well as health.
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