Since he started his own business, my partner has made no effort to see me – The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: SINCE he started his own business last year, I hardly see my boyfriend.

We have been together for 15 years. He is 50 and I am 48.


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Things used to be good but we no longer have a proper relationship.

He used to come to me on a Saturday and stay over but now he has stopped as he says he wants more time to himself to chill out.

He refuses to stay over Sundays as he will miss his favourite TV shows.

If I com­plain that TV comes before our relationship and sex life, he gets angry. I wonder if I should give up on him.

DEIDRE SAYS: He may be stressed by business worries and it has knocked his sex drive or set off performance problems.

Tell him you care but fear your relationship is being hurt and you worry about his health.

Suggest a massage to encourage intimacy. My e-leaflet Massage For Couples explains.

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