Compatibility is something commonly brought up when it comes to astrology.
This is likely because we want to believe that our encounters and partnerships are written in the stars, and to receive validation for the choices we make (good or bad).
While astrology can point towards compatibility, it’s important to remember that there are lots of caveats.
In the first place, you can’t rely on your sun sign to give you a true insight into who you are, as it only gives you some of the picture.
As well as this, astrology should be used as more of a guide to help you see your desires and how to fulfil them, rather than a hard-and-fast guidebook where you write off anyone that doesn’t fit in.
That’s why we wanted to look into compatibility in a less prescriptive sense. Have a look at our guide on what your star sign means for your sexual preferences.
From there, take a look at your sign below and see which signs will typically have the attributes that get you hot under the collar.
Aries
Aries – as a passionate lover – can work well with a number of signs but does particularly well with fire signs Leo and Sagittarius.
Particularly given that Aries is ruled by Mars – the planet of aggression, action and sex – you’ll see sparks fly when fire meets fire.
Aries is a Cardinal sign, while Sagittarius is Mutable, which means Aries will be the one to direct the show in the bedroom. Sag won’t be a wallflower, though, and instead will add an element of spontaneity.
With Leo, Aries may find that there’s more of a clash of ego here, with Leo looking to be worshipped constantly. If you can see past this, though, the passion will be unmatched.
Taurus
Earth sign Taurus are stubborn and sometimes possessive, although known for being fantastic lovers.
Cancer and Pisces – two of the most loyal signs – can be perfect for allowing Taureans to feel comfortable in the relationship (and, by proxy, in sex). Once they know their partner can be trusted, they can feel free to experiment and live in the moment.
Another pairing that can be beneficial for a Taurus is with Virgo. Taurus love earthly pleasures, and can have a tendency to get lost in sensuality.
While this isn’t a bad thing, Virgo’s more analytical nature gives a new layer to the sexual relationship. They want to be taught how to open up, and Taurus is the ideal sign to help them do this.
Gemini
Gemini and Aries are a sexual match made in heaven due to their propensity for wanting to move at 100 miles an hour at all times.
Gemini need someone to be with them when they’re bored and want to move onto the next thing, so expect to get through the Kama Sutra in no time along with an Aries.
Leo is another sign that can match Gemini’s light and airy approach to life and sex, but if you want sparks to really fly, think about getting together with a Libra.
Known as one of the best potential partnerships in the zodiac, these two bring out the best in each other, and can have adventures that other couples would only dream of.
Cancer
The most important thing for a Cancer in the bedroom is a deep connection.
This doesn’t mean they need to be cuffed to enjoy sex, but it does mean whoever they’re with needs to also be all in – at least in that moment.
Although Scorpio are known for their sexual nature, this doesn’t necessarily mean they want to sleep with everything that moves. Instead, it means they experience all those intense feelings Cancer does during the act, and therefore the two signs are heavily compatible.
Cancer also works well with Cancer, with the understanding that comes from being with someone just as mood-driven having the potential to provide mutual satisfaction.
Leo
Fire sign Leo might be surprised to learn that there’s a particular air sign that can work wonders for their need for attention.
Aquarius might be known for being distant – which seems at odds with Leo’s obsession with being desired. However, it gives Leo something to work for, as they do what they do best and peacock to win Aquarius’ heart and mind.
On the other hand, if you want someone just as wild as you are, you can bank on a Leo/Aries or Leo/Sagittarius pair seeing passion fly like sparks from their combined fire.
Virgo
With a tendency to stick to a routine, the best sex they can have is with someone who’s as dedicated as they are to getting the job done.
That might sound unromantic, but it makes for really great sex and plenty of orgasms, particularly when placed with an equally diligent sign like Capricorn.
They may also find intense attraction with Pisces. As they’re both mutable signs, they can really relax with each other in the bedroom.
Libra
As mentioned previously, Libra and Gemini are a match for the ages both in a sexual sense and otherwise.
You may also find that other signs can turn them on just as well, though. For example, an Aquarius will fulfil Libra’s need for mental stimulation with their unique outlook on things.
Not only that, but they can help to temper Libra’s tendency to give a little too much in the bedroom and restore balance.
Scorpio
You may have a reputation for having a crazy sex drive, but not just any sex will do for Scorpio.
They want intensity, passion, and true eroticism – even better if this also comes with a mental connection.
For these reasons, Cancer and Pisces can be amazing with a Scorpio, offering them the emotional level as well as being keen for the more kinky and experimental side.
Sagittarius
Fireworks are to be expected when Sagittarius and Leo meet in bed, with their similarity in terms of showboating and competitiveness coming through to make an explosive encounter.
In a Yin-Yang type pairing, Sagittarius also go very well with Gemini. Each partner brings something different, and it just fits together and works.
They both need to be careful to avoid jealousy, though, and have a conversation beforehand about fidelity and monogamy to avoid clashes.
Capricorn
To give staid Capricorn the push they often need to open up sexually, they might consider Taurus, whose sensuality helps them move past their self-imposed boundaries.
Taureans really know how to romance their lover, and can wine and dine Capricorn to help get their mind off of goals and into a freer zone.
Alternatively, for long-lasting and well-thought-out sex, a Virgo and Capricorn mix can be mutually beneficial.
Aquarius
Aquarians aren’t known for their communication skills, which means a super open and emotional partner can be just what they need.
This often comes in the form of a Gemini and Aquarius mix.
Gemini is able to see through the non-verbal cues Aquarius gives, and also coax them into talking more about what they need and want.
Either this, or look for a Leo, who will worship you and try their best to win you over. They can’t understand why you aren’t subservient to them, and will be mystified by your love of independence, showing off in order to get your affection.
Pisces
Water sign Pisces is creative in the bedroom, and can work well with a high-sex-drive sign like Scorpio to help them fulfil their fantasies.
Fellow water sign Cancer can also give them the connection they crave, along with the intuitive sexual experience known for their element.
For a partner who will ground a Pisces and complement your dreamy attitude to sex, a Virgo could be a great option.
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