DEAR DEIDRE: I DISCOVERED my dad having sex with a male friend when I came home early one day after meeting mates.
I am a 17-year-old guy. I could hear noises of people “going at it” upstairs and wondered what was happening. I was so shocked when I entered the bedroom.
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Dad has assured me that nothing was going on and pleaded with me not to tell my mum.
I can’t bring myself to look at my dad now. I love both of my parents but I don’t want my mum to get hurt.
Where do my loyalties lie?
DEIDRE SAYS: I am sorry you are caught up in your parents’ marital problems but you can’t know what your mum does and doesn’t know or suspect – nor can your dad be sure.
Talk to your dad. Say this was a distressing experience for you and you need to know he and your mum are being honest with one another.
Then leave them to sort out their marriage while you focus on your own life.
To confide in someone understanding, contact The Mix themix.org.uk, 0808 808 4994).
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