I desperately want a baby but my husband lost his sex drive and can’t climax – The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: MY husband never initiates sex and has not climaxed during intercourse with me – so how can I get the baby I long for?

We have been together for three years and married for a year. All we do is bicker.


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He knows I want kids and says he does too.

He would be a great dad but we are both 38 and time is ticking.

He has seen a doctor for tests.

Everything is fine and he was told the issue is psychological.

He is the opposite to my ex-boyfriends.

I do all the running. I’m fed up with arguing over little things and avoiding the big problem.

DEIDRE SAYS: You must discover whether the underlying problem is that he has a low sex drive, feels pressure to perform or has anxieties about becoming a father.

Tell him you must have a serious, honest conversation about this.

It is so sensitive, you had best get expert help, which you can find through the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists (cosrt.org.uk).

My e-leaflet Want To Have A Baby? will help too.

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