I feel so insecure after getting back with my girlfriend who left me for another man – The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: FOR a brief time my girlfriend left me for another guy. She’s back now but I’m so insecure.

We moved in together two years ago. I’m 29 and I travel a lot with my job so my girlfriend spends many evenings alone. She’s 25.

Things weren’t going well when she left for this other guy. He’s 32 but turned out to be very selfish. I was trying to come to terms with being alone when she turned up, begging my forgiveness.

When we have sex now I can’t help thinking about what she did with this man. I used to be confident but now I’m worried my penis isn’t big enough.

It’s over six inches but my girlfriend says, “Bigger is better” for her.

I live with anxiety and this is pushing me over the edge.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Your girlfriend sounds selfish and insensitive. You are more than big enough to be a satisfying lover.

My e-leaflet Manhood Too Small? will boost your confidence.

Your girlfriend begged you to take her back, so tell her communication is the way to a good sex life, not cheating and making undermining comments

Get help with anxiety through Anxiety UK (anxietyuk.org.uk, 03444 775 774).

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