DEAR DEIDRE: MY fiancé is so sweet and I love him with all my heart – but his family are toxic.
His mum has made it clear she does not like me and that I am not welcome at their home. His father has been abusive towards me.
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His aunt and older sister say I am just trying to control him and after his money.
I am 26 and have lived with my fiancé, who is 27, for two years.
The awful things his family accuse me of make me miserable so I have decided I am not going to their home any more.
My fiancé still goes but I feel that is up to him.
We are planning our wedding but I don’t want to invite his horrible family.
I feel guilty about this and I worry they might cause trouble.
DEIDRE SAYS: If you cut them out of the wedding celebrations altogether, they really will have something to complain about.
Include them in the guest list but just plough on with arranging your day as you wish, without input from them.
Luckily the groom’s family have no official roles.
They may stay away once they realise they are side-lined but, as neither of you would be surprised, it should not spoil your special day.
My e-leaflet Wedding Worries can help.
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