DEAR DEIDRE: I AM expecting our fifth child and suffering from terrible morning sickness, but my husband is treating me really badly.
Our four children are all under ten.
They are lovely but hard work and I’m struggling to get through the day. I’m 33 and my husband is 35.
I manage to cook dinner but when he gets back from work he has to dish it up and clean it all away.
He does this reluctantly and makes out I’m lazy.
He is barely talking to me and says I’m unapproachable.
I feel so let down by him, though I should be used to it as he’s been like this the other times I’ve been pregnant.
Am I right to feel upset?
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DEIDRE SAYS: His behaviour sounds appalling but was this a planned pregnancy or is he angry that another child is on the way?
Of course it’s no excuse but you both need to understand what lies beneath his resentment if he is to change.
Tell him you are distressed at the rift between you, which is damaging for your children too, and ask why he is so resentful.
It could be a light-bulb moment for you both.
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