I'm worried my wife will leave me because I can't get it up in bed

DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN I married the love of my life three months ago I was thrilled.

Now I can’t do the business in bed and I’m worried my marriage will end.


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I’ve been with my wife for two years. We are both 24 and our sex life has always been great.

We have talked about starting a family soon.

Then one night I went floppy at the very worst time. Now I get in a panic before sex.

I’m scared I won’t get an erection and scared my dreams will all come to an end if I can’t make babies.

DEIDRE SAYS: You are overthinking this way too much. It’s almost certainly anxiety and fear of failure that has caused you this cycle of stress and put you off your stride.

Share your worries with your wife so she knows your love hasn’t changed.

Put intercourse off the agenda for now and focus on making each other feel good. My e-leaflet Solving Erection Problems explains self-help.

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