Are we too old to try for a baby?

DEAR DEIDRE: MY partner wants to have a baby but I’m worried I’m too old to get pregnant.

I’m a grandma aged 46 and last summer I moved in with my new man, who’s a granddad aged 54.

We are deeply in love and have a great relationship and an active sex life that would put younger couples to shame.


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One night, while we were in bed, he said he thinks the thing that would cement our relationship is a child of our own.

I’d love to have another baby, even though it would be ­younger than my grandkids – but we’ve been trying for months now and nothing is happening.

I still have regular periods, yet can’t seem to get pregnant. Is there anything I can do?

DEIDRE SAYS: Many 40-plus women do conceive.

However, there is no denying that your odds of getting pregnant are lower than just a few years ago, and there’s a much higher chance of miscarriage and other pregnancy problems too.

Do have a proper think if this is the right path.

It’s important that you talk to your GP, who can refer you to a fertility specialist for tests.

In the meantime my leaflet, Want To Have A Baby?, offers lots of advice.

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