How each star sign can find love this autumn

As the summer fun (and weather) ends, we enter into ‘cuffing season’; when people start to couple up ready for the colder and cosier months.

Perhaps it’s because folks have got hot girl summer out of the way, or because they want someone to swap presents with come Christmas, but the autumn is the time of the year to find love and settle down.

If you’re ready to cuff up, you need to know what you want and how to project your energy so you find the right person.

With that in mind, the experts at Psychic Sofa have revealed the different ways that people can open up and channel love by using the unique powers of the zodiac.

According to horoscope and psychic expert, Estella, it’ll be Libras, Geminis and Aries most likely to find love this autumn, due to their adventurous sides and eagerness to get back out there now that restrictions have eased.

Below she shares the ways in which people can engage with their star signs to find love as we get into the second part of the year.

Virgo, Aug 23 – Sep 22

Focus on shared values

One of your best Virgo personality traits is that you work so hard to ensure that your loved ones’ lives are running as smoothly as possible because you care so much about their happiness.

However, it can be easy to feel unappreciated when no gratitude or thanks is returned. You need someone who notices and reciprocates the lovely things you do.

To channel love, you need to seek out these kinds of people – usually found volunteering, taking part in charity runs or standing up for what they believe in at causes and events.

With shared values being the foundation of a strong Virgo relationship, you’ll find that your commitment to each other will give you what you may be missing out on, and make your new partner feel like home.

Libra, Sep 23 – Oct 22

Get back out there and be adventurous

You’re a fascinating Zodiac sign, Libra, because there’s much complexity to your personality. You want someone who can match you intellectually and have great conversations with, while, at the same time, someone who you can travel together with and take part in new experiences with to create memories that last a lifetime.

To channel this love, you need to start getting out there and loving life. Take part in debates regarding topics you’re passionate about. Create a list of all the places you’d like to visit. Get back into that hobby you always loved, so that you can find more enjoyment in life.

In doing these things, you’re showing the universe your truth, and what truly makes you happy. Building up positivity around you, you welcome this in, and channel love through your experiences. 

Scorpio, Oct 32 – Nov 21

Be honest and put yourself out there

We all know that when a Scorpio lets someone in, it’s a rare and beautiful thing. You want honesty and transparency from your special one right away, even though you take much longer to reciprocate. This may have been your downfall in the past – expecting the world, but only offering a seed back.

To channel love, you have to be open to the possibility of there being real, authentic and fantastic people out there who will love you just the way you are, without judgement or fear.

We understand how tough this can be, but consider how much better your relationship will be when you’re both being honest from the start. There’ll be no surprises, no time wasted, and no wondering where it all went wrong. You can do this Scorpio. 

Sagittarius, Nov 22 – Dec 21

Overcome commitment issues

Because you value freedom, and committing yourself to one person can seem daunting, it’s hardly surprising that channelling true love has been difficult. You like doing things your own way, and, even when life gets tough, you always see the positive and have no time for downers or people who just make situations worse.

You have big dreams and hopeful aspirations, and you’re searching for someone who supports you through and through. Look out for people who handle life with grace and sincerity, and realise that although no-one is perfect, there is someone out there who is perfect for you.

If commitment is an issue, then you need to figure out why, so that channelling love becomes far easier. Seeking out spiritual guidance from a psychic love reading could help with this too.

Capricorn, Dec 22 – Jan 19

Don’t waste time, move on

Have you ever been told that your star sign is not the easiest to approach? Your serious demeanour and self-presentation can appear cold or standoffish, and because you’re not always the most confident person, getting you to make the first move can be tough. But we all know that Capricorns are talented, intelligent and wonderful people, who warm up quickly to the right people.

To channel love, you should go to places where you feel most comfortable and can express yourself openly, drawing people into your brilliance. But don’t waste your time with people who don’t value you. Reliability and trustworthiness are two key traits for a successful Capricorn relationship.

If you experience repeated behaviour that you can’t abide by, it’s time to move on and find the true love you’re after. There is someone out there who will love you just as you are, and so long as you can love them just as they are, you’ll both be golden.

Aquarius, Jan 20 – Feb 18

Take the friendship route

Relationships haven’t been easy for you, have they Aquarius? Your seemingly detached personality can be somewhat unnerving, and your eccentricities can be a challenge for others at first, but don’t fret! Quite the contrary, these are good things.

You’re unique, Aquarius, and you need someone who appreciates that. Some of the greatest Aquarius love stories started out as friendships, and being with someone who understands your positives and flaws, and loves you for them, can lead to intimacy and true love.

To channel love, we actually recommend deepening the friendships in your life and considering relationships with those you know have your back.

Alternatively, taking the friendship route first with someone you like, so that you get to know each other better, and then figuring out whether there’s something more to your attraction can ensure that you truly know someone before letting them get close. 

Pisces, Feb 19 – Mar 20

Deal with the reality of relationships 

You’re an old-school romantic, aren’t you Pisces? You long for a fairytale romance, and your idealistic approach to love is very sweet. But, unfortunately, when partners don’t meet your expectations, you have been known to chuck the odd one away.

Channelling love involves giving people a chance and realising that you aren’t perfect either. You want someone to take you as you are, but doesn’t your partner deserve the same treatment?

Letting the universe know that you’re up for an adventure and will take opportunities as they come, regardless of the hurdles, is a good way to channel love into all aspects of your life.

Real life is tough, and not always great, but how we deal with it is the making of us. And that makes for a far more exciting story, don’t you think?

Aries, Mar 21 – Apr 19

Meet like-minded people by doing what you love

As a star sign ruled by Mars – the planet of action and motivation – you’re very passionate about everything you put your mind to, and, in general, you light up everyone’s lives with your burning Aries fire.

If love just hasn’t come your way yet, it may be because you’re attracting the wrong types of personalities. You want your soulmate to be your match, sparking that flame within that encourages new adventures, good times and the belief that anything is possible.

To channel the true love you want, go out there and take part in the activities that bring you the most enjoyment, because it’s there that you’ll meet like-minded people who share the same passions as you.

And when you do meet that lovely individual, keep the fire alive with surprise dates and short adventures, because not only will they feel special, but it’s the fastest way to their heart.

Taurus, Apr 20 – May 20

Take care of yourself and show love

An earth sign that has a reputation for being logical and very practical – if past experiences haven’t been wholly pleasant, it’s understandable that you think your future love life seems bleak. But that’s far from true.

Your ruling planet is Venus after all – the planet of love and beauty. Consider what defines you, Taurus.

You’re sensual, so you’re attracted to someone who looks good, has their life together and cares about those around them. Well then, become this person too. Take time with your appearance in the morning, show love and appreciation for those in your life, and, if you can, use your brain power for good.

There’ll be a shift in the universe, and you’ll be rewarded with the love you know you deserve.

Gemini, May 21 – Jun 20

Try new and exciting things

Part of the issue, Gemini, is that you don’t always hold a strong interest in others for long, and this can scare people off. You need someone who not only grabs your attention and can keep up with your busy lifestyle, but also someone who enjoys being along for the ride and has their own journey they’d like you to join them on.

To channel love then, you value the new and exciting, and people who can teach you things so that you grow.

Why not try a new hobby or class and see where that takes you? Who knows all the intellectually stimulating people you may meet.

Cancer, Jun 21 – Jul 22

Trust and open up

When it comes to love, you’re always 100% in, so in the past, if your partner hasn’t been, it may have left you feeling unworthy and unappreciated.

When it comes to channelling love, it’s about setting boundaries, and being clear about what you need from your partner, so that if they can’t meet those needs, you make an informed decision about whether the relationship should continue.

It’s important that you find someone you can trust and open up to, so that they can make you feel secure and there’s no question of their feelings. To do this, you have to let that person feel the same way too, letting them in completely and being open to compromising if occasionally needed.

You may have differences of opinion, choice of activities and interests, but making time for both will ensure that love burns eternally. 

Leo, Jul 23 – Aug 22

Continue to be generous and loving

As one of the most generous star signs, you love little signs of affection – such as the occasional surprise gift, or an activity that shows you they care. So if in the past you’ve found that this hasn’t been reciprocated, then don’t succumb to lower standards than you’re worth.

Everyone should feel loved and appreciated, and you deserve the world, Leo. There is someone out there who will value your kindness, consideration and love more than you could ever think possible, so to channel this, continue being your awesome self, and you’ll find that the right one will find you.

Everything you need to know about your star sign

If you’d like to know your zodiac sign’s dates, personality traits, and compatibility – as well as some famous people who fall under that star sign – we have rundowns on each. Check them out:

  • Aries
  • Taurus
  • Gemini
  • Cancer
  • Leo
  • Virgo
  • Libra
  • Scorpio
  • Sagittarius
  • Capricorn
  • Aquarius
  • Pisces

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