My best friend's fiancée is being flirty with my cousin – should I tell him?

DEAR DEIDRE:  THE fiancée of my best friend has been flirting with my cousin. This relative showed me messages between them on his phone.

I was gobsmacked as it was clear they were planning to meet. She said things like: “I just need an excuse so I can meet you.”

My best friend met his fiancée through his job and he has given up a lot for her.

We hardly ever saw him out when the pubs were open, and he gave up going to football because she didn’t like being left alone.

My best mate is 27, like me. His fiancée is 26.

My impression is that she wouldn’t hesitate to cheat on my friend. He doesn’t deserve this. What shall I do?

Get in touch with Deidre today

My team and I are working safely from home but we are here to help you as always.

Send an email to

Every problem gets a personal reply, usually within 24 hours weekdays.

You can also send a private message on the DearDeidreOfficial Facebook page.

Follow me on Twitter @deardeidre.

DEIDRE SAYS: Best not to tell tales. But would your cousin listen to you?

The obvious answer is that your cousin backs off and tells your friend’s fiancée he will only meet her if and when she has ended her engagement.

That’s the best move from his point of view too. What’s the point of getting into a messy, dead-end fling?

Or you could tell this girl your cousin is bragging about their flirting. Is he really right for her?

NEXT IN TODAY'S DEAR DEIDRE I cheated on my girlfriend twice and the guilt is killing me inside – how can I save my relationship?

READ DEIDRE'S PHOTO CASEBOOK Helen worries whilst Gemma stays out late at her boyfriend's house

GOT a story? RING The Sun on 0207 782 4104 or WHATSAPP on 07423720250 or EMAIL

Source: Read Full Article